My Year Abroad

My Year Abroad

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  • Author:Chang-rae Lee
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Summary

From the award-winning author of Native Speaker and On Such a Full Sea, an exuberant, provocative story about a young American life transformed by an unusual Asian adventure - and about the human capacities for pleasure, pain, and connection。

Tiller is an average American college student with a good heart but minimal aspirations。 Pong Lou is a larger-than-life, wildly creative Chinese American entrepreneur who sees something intriguing in Tiller beyond his bored exterior and takes him under his wing。 When Pong brings him along on a boisterous trip across Asia, Tiller is catapulted from ordinary young man to talented protégé, and pulled into a series of ever more extreme and eye-opening experiences that transform his view of the world, of Pong, and of himself。

In the breathtaking, "precise, elliptical prose" that Chang-rae Lee is known for (The New York Times), the narrative alternates between Tiller's outlandish, mind-boggling year with Pong and the strange, riveting, emotionally complex domestic life that follows it, as Tiller processes what happened to him abroad and what it means for his future。 Rich with commentary on Western attitudes, Eastern stereotypes, capitalism, global trade, mental health, parenthood, mentorship, and more, My Year Abroad is also an exploration of the surprising effects of cultural immersion—on a young American in Asia, on a Chinese man in America, and on an unlikely couple hiding out in the suburbs。 Tinged at once with humor and darkness, electric with its accumulating surprises and suspense, My Year Abroad is a novel that only Chang-rae Lee could have written, and one that will be read and discussed for years to come。

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Allison Bedford

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 I could not get into this book。 I slogged through it though and it never redeemed itself to me。 It almost felt like no plot。 The book would foreshadow that bad things were going to happen to some characters and eventually those things did or did not exactly happen but it was like stringing you along for nearly 500 pages for very little to really happen。 I kept wondering why would along take this college boy along to do all these things?? His interest in Tiller was just so far fetched for me。 The I could not get into this book。 I slogged through it though and it never redeemed itself to me。 It almost felt like no plot。 The book would foreshadow that bad things were going to happen to some characters and eventually those things did or did not exactly happen but it was like stringing you along for nearly 500 pages for very little to really happen。 I kept wondering why would along take this college boy along to do all these things?? His interest in Tiller was just so far fetched for me。 The book was sad and depressing for me too。 Don’t recommend 。。。more

Jennifer

like a long, funny, entertaining movie that makes you weep in the final ten minutes

Kathy

I had honestly forgotten about Chang-rae Lee - I believe I discovered him about the time he wrote his last novel (7 years ago?), which I liked so much that I went back and read some of his earlier works。 I was delighted to be reminded of him and to hear that he had a new book。Tiller is a college student who is bathed in a sea of mediocrity。 He lives with his loving but somewhat distant father on the "poor" side of a New Jersey suburb although they are certainly comfortable economically。 There ar I had honestly forgotten about Chang-rae Lee - I believe I discovered him about the time he wrote his last novel (7 years ago?), which I liked so much that I went back and read some of his earlier works。 I was delighted to be reminded of him and to hear that he had a new book。Tiller is a college student who is bathed in a sea of mediocrity。 He lives with his loving but somewhat distant father on the "poor" side of a New Jersey suburb although they are certainly comfortable economically。 There are only two facts that stand out about him: his mother abandoned the family when he was a boy and he knows nothing about her current whereabouts and he is 1/8th Korean。 The story is told from Tiller's point of view and alternates between the story of his year abroad with his current situation where he is living with a somewhat older woman and her son Veej (nickname for Victor Jr) who are in the witness protection program in a city aptly named Stagno。 Tiller is working as a caddie when he meets Pong, a Chinese immigrant, chemist for a pharmaceutical company and local entrepreneur。 Pong has a magnetic personality and a gift for excelling at everything he does。 He has never played golf before but steadily improves over the 18 holes of play so that he is one of the best of the foursome by the end。 Pong takes a liking to Tiller and tells him to stay in touch。 When they next meet, Pong takes him on a culinary journey through his food-related business ventures (my favorite is "WTF Yo!" which I think would have been the perfect name for the frozen yogurt shop in "The Good Place")。 Pong uses his knowledge of chemistry to refine food tastes and textures , and he discovers that Tiller has a master palate, discerning subtle tastes and refinements。 Pong and his associates are formulating a plan to market an Indonesian health food drink, and Pong invites Tiller to go along with him to a marketing and sales trip to Asia stating that Tiller will be of use to the target demographic of young adults。 Tiller agrees and tells his father that he will be doing a year of study abroad and departs with Pong。 Meanwhile - in the present day section of the book, Tiller and Val have progressed from homeschooling Veej in a lackluster manner to developing his new passion for cooking。 Honestly, this was my favorite portion of the book。 They have a pop-up restaurant in their kitchen that operates on tips only and Veej makes outrageous gourmet cuisine (a starter of kimchee infused oyster shooters, anyone?)。 Veej wears small orange crocs and after the dinner guests leave, he unwinds on the back porch with a bubble gum cigar and a glass of root beer。During the trip to Asia, Tiller discovers multiple other talents include karaoke singing and saves Pong's life while surfing。 They end up in the mountain-top lair of Drum Kappagoda who is hosting a yoga conference。 Drum is superficially nice, but it has the same feel as those movies when someone walks into a house that you just know will be haunted or inhabited by a serial killer。 Drum's daughter Constance takes a shine to Tiller, and there are some of the most bizarre sex scenes I have ever read (insert shudder)。 Without giving away the end, Pong leaves for what is supposed to be a quick trip to the mainland, but is away for much longer。 Drum places Tiller under the control of his chef who forces him to make curry using an enormous pestle and mortar。 Back in the US, the situation with Val begins to deteriorate while Tiller becomes increasingly emotionally attached to her and Veej。Many themes to this book - the role of immigrants, mentoring, parent/child relationships and they are all thoughtfully addressed。 But the reason to read this book is for the food porn。 Not only Veej's creations but endless descriptions of meals eaten by Pong and his gang, food prepared by Drum's chef, and even the fast food of Tiller's youth。 。。。more

Ann Epstein

Bifurcated, Half Good – My Year Abroad by Chang-Rae Lee, is the story of a year in the life of Tiller Bardmon, a twenty-year-old, motherless, one-eighth Asian, upper middle class dropout from a New Jersey college town。 In this bifurcated tale, part of Tiller’s year is spent living semi-anonymously with an older woman who is in a witness protection program and has a young son。 The unlikely threesome form a quasi-family, and Tiller becomes a father figure to the boy, who possesses an uncanny talen Bifurcated, Half Good – My Year Abroad by Chang-Rae Lee, is the story of a year in the life of Tiller Bardmon, a twenty-year-old, motherless, one-eighth Asian, upper middle class dropout from a New Jersey college town。 In this bifurcated tale, part of Tiller’s year is spent living semi-anonymously with an older woman who is in a witness protection program and has a young son。 The unlikely threesome form a quasi-family, and Tiller becomes a father figure to the boy, who possesses an uncanny talent for cooking。 Tiller has spent the earlier part of the year in China, taken there by a wealthy Asian-American businessman, who is both mentor and father figure。 His adventures abroad range from exotic to kinky to torturous。 “Adventures” implies an exciting journey for the reader, but Lee’s overlong and fanciful descriptions of bizarre figures and unbelievable events were boring。 As a fiction writer myself (see my Goodreads author page https://www。goodreads。com/author/show。。。), I found the author’s riffs to be self-indulgent。 By contrast, Tiller’s tame domesticity, in the company of fully drawn characters, especially the young boy, was moving and engaging。 A better book would have truncated the unconventional experiences abroad and remained stateside, delving deeper into the creation of an unconventional family。 。。。more

Theodore Fischer

I have mixed feelings about this book: loved the "Stagno" chapters, the sections "abroad" not so much because they went on too long and were too confusing。 I have mixed feelings about this book: loved the "Stagno" chapters, the sections "abroad" not so much because they went on too long and were too confusing。 。。。more

Meredith

This took me a while。 At first, I couldn't stop reading, but then as the timeline kept moving between past and present I got a bit frustrated。 Overall there are characters and incidents that I'll think about from time to time。 This took me a while。 At first, I couldn't stop reading, but then as the timeline kept moving between past and present I got a bit frustrated。 Overall there are characters and incidents that I'll think about from time to time。 。。。more

Iskellyk

This is an odd book in the sense that I can really tell you what it's about。 But the characters and insights are interesting, and while I was happy to read it for an hour each day at lunch time, I was never dying to see what comes next。 And at a certain around page 300 and something, I wondered, where is all this leading, how many pages on in this book? 500+ ! Lately I have been reading as escape, light, frothy stories, and whatever I read to make me buy this book, well I wasn't expecting a tomb This is an odd book in the sense that I can really tell you what it's about。 But the characters and insights are interesting, and while I was happy to read it for an hour each day at lunch time, I was never dying to see what comes next。 And at a certain around page 300 and something, I wondered, where is all this leading, how many pages on in this book? 500+ ! Lately I have been reading as escape, light, frothy stories, and whatever I read to make me buy this book, well I wasn't expecting a tombe。 But in it's way this book still met my criteria of light and frothy and in tone, even the less light parts。 。。。more

Aaron Broadwell

Brilliant syntax and striking language drew me into this book。。。。But after many chapters I did not feel like the plot was going anywhere or that the characters were very believable。 I became a bit bored with Tiller going on another trip to Asia, and the apparent disconnection of plot between life with his girlfriend in NJ and his various travels。I imagine that the novel eventually pulls this together, but it left me feeling unfulfilled after reading half and I was not motivated enough to finish Brilliant syntax and striking language drew me into this book。。。。But after many chapters I did not feel like the plot was going anywhere or that the characters were very believable。 I became a bit bored with Tiller going on another trip to Asia, and the apparent disconnection of plot between life with his girlfriend in NJ and his various travels。I imagine that the novel eventually pulls this together, but it left me feeling unfulfilled after reading half and I was not motivated enough to finish it to see how it is concluded。 。。。more

Celeste

My Year Abroad has been praised all over the place, so my doubts won't affect its reputation。 This book about a "totally average" motherless but privileged college student from an upperclass town who falls in with a charismatic entrepreneur would have been much better had it been edited。 This is a fate that befalls many successful authors: their work sells so well and is so desperately awaited by readers and booksellers and publishers who need to make money that when the poor author finishes the My Year Abroad has been praised all over the place, so my doubts won't affect its reputation。 This book about a "totally average" motherless but privileged college student from an upperclass town who falls in with a charismatic entrepreneur would have been much better had it been edited。 This is a fate that befalls many successful authors: their work sells so well and is so desperately awaited by readers and booksellers and publishers who need to make money that when the poor author finishes the manuscript, it is raced into production with barely a copyedit。 The protagonist's beloved son of his girlfriend is heavy。 It would have been enough to say this once, twice, even three times。 It is superfluous to mention it every time the kid appears。 The detailed descriptions of food could have added up to something, such as a connection to love。 The whole story could have added up to something rather than just stopping when the author got tired。 。。。more

Mona Bomgaars

Very weird near the end, though well written and easily read。

Mary Ahlgren

I wish I had liked this book more that I did。 The absurd, and actually sometimes horrific, decadence of the "year abroad" depressed me。。。。(decadence does that to me), the child chef, who was kind of endearing, the "long term" relationship between Val and Tiller(what?!), was all stirred together into a book which had some great scenes and a host of not quite believable characters。 I wish I had liked this book more that I did。 The absurd, and actually sometimes horrific, decadence of the "year abroad" depressed me。。。。(decadence does that to me), the child chef, who was kind of endearing, the "long term" relationship between Val and Tiller(what?!), was all stirred together into a book which had some great scenes and a host of not quite believable characters。 。。。more

Tabitha

This story centers on one mans influential journey abroad and the characters he encountered from past to present。While I enjoyed the imagery and writing style, I couldn’t get past the time jumps and plot “maze” the author created。 It felt like I was following the thoughts of our narrator and having to jump chronologically and understand the reasoning behind each memory or story made it hard to follow or enjoy the novel。

Martin Brezina

Nedočítal som。Miestami to bolo fakt dobré, ale zlomil ma extrémne nudný a dlhý opis toho ako sa Pong dostal k melónu hneď potom ako sa stala dôležitá zápletka。

Susan

There is a lot of story here, and a large cast of characters, many of whom are memorable and make a lasting impression。

EJ

DNF – got more than halfway through the book as had to return it because I took way too long to slog through that first half。 Not rating this one because I’m unsure if it really is too much of a drag or if I’m simply not in the state of mind to be fully immersed into this story。

Dawn

I liked the food descriptions。 But didn't care about the characters。 I liked the food descriptions。 But didn't care about the characters。 。。。more

Diane

A wacky, overstuffed, picaresque coming-of-age novel。 Over the top, but it worked for me。

Eric Nalbone

I don't know what this book wants to be, but whatever it is - it's wonderful。 Coming of age story, weird family epic, musings on what culture is and how it affects us all 。。。 don't know and honestly I think I don't care。 I'd put my favorite quote in, but it's from late enough in the book that it'd give away far too much, and readers are best left finding that particular gem on their own。 But you'll know it when you find it and it does a decent job of trying to tell you what the book actually *is I don't know what this book wants to be, but whatever it is - it's wonderful。 Coming of age story, weird family epic, musings on what culture is and how it affects us all 。。。 don't know and honestly I think I don't care。 I'd put my favorite quote in, but it's from late enough in the book that it'd give away far too much, and readers are best left finding that particular gem on their own。 But you'll know it when you find it and it does a decent job of trying to tell you what the book actually *is* about, without putting too pedantic of a bow on the whole thing。 This is beautifully written, accessible without being dumbed down and interesting without being academic。 It's my first exposure to Lee's work, but the kind of book that makes you want to hop right on Amazon and find other books by the author。 It's in my top 2 or 3 books from 2021 (from 20 so far in 2021) and of such caliber that I would have a very hard time seeing it get bumped out of that echelon。 In a world where I sometimes find myself wondering what in the world other people see in highly recommended novels (reference some of my other reviews) this was everything promised and more。 Pick it up, work your way through it - it is long, so fair warning - and just enjoy the wild ride。*edited to add* If you happen to know anything about Princeton, NJ 。。。 it seems pretty clear that the main character is either from a town modeled after Princeton or so reminiscent as to be indistinguishable。 It plays a reasonably large role in the book and narrative and was a delightful connection that I'm sure others would find equally compelling。 I've not done enough research to determine if Princeton is in fact the model for the character's hometown, but suffice it to say 。。。 I'd have a hard time believing it was anywhere else。 So whether you're a Princeton (town) native or a Princeton (University) grad 。。。 it's a small easter egg that you'll appreciate。 。。。more

Lov Goel

Chang Rae’s latest novel was an absolute pleasure to read。 I honestly felt more like I was experiencing the characters’ lives than I was observing them in their world。 This is not for the faint of heart, or those without an open mind。 Best enjoyed with a cocktail。

Robin

As someone who has read all of Chang-rae Lee's novels, it amazes me how vastly different they all are, in tone, place, time, characters, etc。 Although, yes, as most reviewers point out, Identity is one common theme of all。 I really loved this book。 For a rating? I'd say it's more of a 4。5 but I'm rounding up。 A 5 for the fact I loved Tiller and Pong and the characters and some of the extremely odd predicaments they get themselves into and for the stories and such interesting backstories on all t As someone who has read all of Chang-rae Lee's novels, it amazes me how vastly different they all are, in tone, place, time, characters, etc。 Although, yes, as most reviewers point out, Identity is one common theme of all。 I really loved this book。 For a rating? I'd say it's more of a 4。5 but I'm rounding up。 A 5 for the fact I loved Tiller and Pong and the characters and some of the extremely odd predicaments they get themselves into and for the stories and such interesting backstories on all the characters。 It's mostly just a very fun book to read。 I'd rate a little less for some of the uncomfortable parts that seemed to go on for a little too long。。。as much as I can see why these parts were needed, some of it was a little tough to read。 Overall the tone of the book was funny and interesting and I loved Tiller's telling of this story in the 1st person。 He is so sweet; I loved how he was basically "game" for anything--whether it was getting out of his comfort zone (karaoke, yoga。。。) in the adventures abroad with Pong and Drum and Constance, or in his low-key life with Val and Veej and instigating all the 20-Whet food craziness & creating all this good with the mystery credit card。 He thought he was just a mediocre, regular guy with no great assets but that of course is far from the truth。。。。such an introspective 20-year old who grew up very fast in this year abroad。 I hope to meet him again in another future story if Lee chooses to write one! 。。。more

Lynne

Beautiful writer

Mark

Rankness and despair and beauty and consumption and excess--an immigrant story, yes, but one where the 20 year old protagonist writes beautifully the experiences that contribute to his adulthood。 Intricately woven between two time periods, and cognizant of how we experience the world through the lens of beauty and pain。

Maggi

Quite a wild ride, this book。 Chang-Rae Lee is the real deal。 Well-drawn character development: check。 Crazy interesting plot: check。 Excitingly built narrative structure: check。 Themes: Coming of age, love, loyalty, and strength building through continual tests。 I can see this book is not for everyone, and many didn't like it, but I loved and I love this author's bold, incisive prose。 Quite a wild ride, this book。 Chang-Rae Lee is the real deal。 Well-drawn character development: check。 Crazy interesting plot: check。 Excitingly built narrative structure: check。 Themes: Coming of age, love, loyalty, and strength building through continual tests。 I can see this book is not for everyone, and many didn't like it, but I loved and I love this author's bold, incisive prose。 。。。more

Anne-Marie

This falls into the “Way overdue Library Book” category。 I was about halfway finished and just never felt the urge to read it。 It was compelling and well written but there was something missing。 The plot was too much of a stretch and the characters lacked true depth。 I’ve finished worse books and it’s possible my opinion might have changed if I had been in a different state of mind and better able to concentrate enough to see it to the end。

Kat

A wildly original modern novel; spirited, surprising, completely crazy and altogether profound。 I loved it!

Karen

BAM! THE SECOND BEST BOOK OF 2021!I saw this book float out on every best of 2021 list。 Initially, I wasn't that interested。 But it was persistent and it kept showing up in my life。 Rule of thumb is if something is presented to me three times, the universe wants me to do something with it。 So, I did。 I read it。 In two days。What a fucking ride! The writing is everything。 Warm and inviting and funny and sarcastic and moves at the perfect pace。 I mean Chang-are Lee TEACHES writing at Stanford, for BAM! THE SECOND BEST BOOK OF 2021!I saw this book float out on every best of 2021 list。 Initially, I wasn't that interested。 But it was persistent and it kept showing up in my life。 Rule of thumb is if something is presented to me three times, the universe wants me to do something with it。 So, I did。 I read it。 In two days。What a fucking ride! The writing is everything。 Warm and inviting and funny and sarcastic and moves at the perfect pace。 I mean Chang-are Lee TEACHES writing at Stanford, for god's sake。 He deftly moves between two time lines and not once did I have to backtrack and figure out what he's talking about。 That often happens with writers trying to work two timelines and not writing it well。There is a lot of detail but it's necessary as he describes this incredible adventure。 I didn't find myself skimming at all。 I READ EVERY WORD。 Would this book be for everyone? I would say 'yes'。 This book would change your reading game if you only subsist on romance novels or generic crap。 Read this book and a whole new world of really GREAT WRITERS will open for you。 You will want to find more GREAT WRITERS - alive or not。Put this in your book club。Tell everyone about it。Post it to your stupid social media accounts。I hope he is nominated again for a Pulitzer。 BAM! 。。。more

J21mckinney

Dark disturbing distressing。 I found some of the storylines to be lengthy and strange。 The author definitely is a master wordsmith crafting vivid scenes but at times I needed a break from reading this rather long book。

Ginath13

4。5 stars!

Tiffany

This book was sooooooooo much longer than it needed to be。 Where was the editor? I kept picking it up and only making it through 10 pages at a time。 I really thought there was going to be some kind of theme or tied up conclusion or just something that made SENSE which is why I kept going 。。。。 but sadly there wasn’t。 I haven’t read Chang-Rae Lee’s other books but if this is an indicator of how his plots typically run I feel they’re probably not for me。 The first half or 1/3 is pretty exciting, I This book was sooooooooo much longer than it needed to be。 Where was the editor? I kept picking it up and only making it through 10 pages at a time。 I really thought there was going to be some kind of theme or tied up conclusion or just something that made SENSE which is why I kept going 。。。。 but sadly there wasn’t。 I haven’t read Chang-Rae Lee’s other books but if this is an indicator of how his plots typically run I feel they’re probably not for me。 The first half or 1/3 is pretty exciting, I really thought it was going to actually be about him living abroad and getting into interesting shenanigans and whatnot but then the story gets so weird, and the writing just becomes these huge unbreakable walls of text that are impossible to understand。 The characters in the last 1/2 of the book are like weird aliens from another planet, like exaggerated cartoon characters。 Think Kill Bill or other Quentin Tarantino style characters, except IMO that kind of over the top-ness doesn’t translate that well in a book format unless you’re an exceptionally skilled or subtle writer。 Not to give away any huge spoilers, but I think at one point there was a scene with some kind of sexual probing involving an ear thermometer but the writing was so convoluted I honestly couldn’t tell you if that was the case or if I just misread it。 What was with the back and forth with the suburban domestic life and the Chinese thug life too? That was just so odd and jarring and honestly it just didn’t work。 I can’t tell you what the point of the story was because I’m not sure the author even knew himself。 。。。more

Jessica Jeffers

My Year Abroad is the kind of book that I think might be more well-written than the amount of enjoyment than I got from the story。 It often comes across as a generic "Important Male Literary Novel" kind of book, even down to the gross descriptions of women's bodies, but I do think Change-Rae Lee was doing some interesting things with his structure and themes。 My Year Abroad is the kind of book that I think might be more well-written than the amount of enjoyment than I got from the story。 It often comes across as a generic "Important Male Literary Novel" kind of book, even down to the gross descriptions of women's bodies, but I do think Change-Rae Lee was doing some interesting things with his structure and themes。 。。。more